Comments on: So I Date Wealthy Entrepreneurs and Businessmen. Does That Make Me a Golddigger? http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/ Uplevel Your Love Life! Thu, 14 Oct 2010 14:28:16 +0000 hourly 1 By: Margaret http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-74 Margaret Tue, 16 Feb 2010 10:20:06 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-74 I recently came across your blog and have been reading along. I have enjoyed it! I will keep visiting very often. Margaret I recently came across your blog and have been reading along. I have enjoyed it! I will keep visiting very often.

Margaret

]]> By: kiara ashanti http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-63 kiara ashanti Sun, 07 Feb 2010 07:53:33 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-63 This is a sentsitive one for me, as my ex is doing just that right now. Dating someone because they have money. If all you do is target well-off guys, then that makes you a gold-digger in my book. If the right guy for you in terms of values happens to not have money, and so you ignore them, or if a man tries to talk to you and you don't give him the time of day because he does not drive a Mercedes, then yes, that would make a woman a gold-digger. If you are attracted to the mindset that entrepreneurs have, then you're more likely to date a man that's a business-owner, and therefore maybe more successful financially. However, I do find it interesting that most women who end up with super rich guys, and or even successful ones, were usually there before the man had money. Whereas, women that target men that way, usually don't end up with the guy, or they do, and then get dropped for a younger version of themselves. I think its poetic justice in a way. But let me flip the script, if a man told a group of women that he would only date women that will stay at home, in the kitchen, and the bedroom, I believe most would be offended, and call him a chauvinist. It's the same thing. This is a sentsitive one for me, as my ex is doing just that right now. Dating someone because they have money. If all you do is target well-off guys, then that makes you a gold-digger in my book. If the right guy for you in terms of values happens to not have money, and so you ignore them, or if a man tries to talk to you and you don’t give him the time of day because he does not drive a Mercedes, then yes, that would make a woman a gold-digger. If you are attracted to the mindset that entrepreneurs have, then you’re more likely to date a man that’s a business-owner, and therefore maybe more successful financially. However, I do find it interesting that most women who end up with super rich guys, and or even successful ones, were usually there before the man had money. Whereas, women that target men that way, usually don’t end up with the guy, or they do, and then get dropped for a younger version of themselves. I think its poetic justice in a way.

But let me flip the script, if a man told a group of women that he would only date women that will stay at home, in the kitchen, and the bedroom, I believe most would be offended, and call him a chauvinist. It’s the same thing.

]]> By: Michelle http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-61 Michelle Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:56:24 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-61 Hello Rhonda, Nice article, well articulated. No a GOLD Digger is a person with faked interest in a person for what that person can do for them. If your intent is to be in a viable working relationship that benefits you and your partner- that is a mutual relationship grounded in integrity and willingness to SHARE. It is not about taking or getting over. So- stay aware and centered in love! Hello Rhonda,
Nice article, well articulated. No a GOLD Digger is a person with faked interest in a person for what that person can do for them. If your intent is to be in a viable working relationship that benefits you and your partner- that is a mutual relationship grounded in integrity and willingness to SHARE. It is not about taking or getting over.
So- stay aware and centered in love!

]]> By: Rhonda http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-59 Rhonda Thu, 28 Jan 2010 07:01:52 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-59 Cynthia, thank you my dear! If more women KNEW what they wanted and most importantly what they deserved, their personal lives would be a whole lot less stressful. Why? Because once you KNOW this, RELAX and ALLOW the energy to flow from you, they magnetically come to YOU. Ahhh, isn't that so much better? Save time, effort and emotional drain... LaTalya, yes--spot on! It is the intent. At a party in Italy a woman asked me (actually she was a friend of a friend), "Rhonda, why do you attract all the best men? I try, and try and try, but get no where. I don't see you doing anything differently." My response to her was it's not necessarily about what you see...it's about how you feel, the intent. If you want to be with a rich man at all costs and that's your main goal, then get him or not, you will never be happy. Jenisa, e-mail my assistant Michelle. There isn't a woman on the planet beyond hope, LOL! Thanks so much for posting everyone and making this blog post complete! ;-) Cynthia, thank you my dear! If more women KNEW what they wanted and most importantly what they deserved, their personal lives would be a whole lot less stressful. Why? Because once you KNOW this, RELAX and ALLOW the energy to flow from you, they magnetically come to YOU. Ahhh, isn’t that so much better? Save time, effort and emotional drain…

LaTalya, yes–spot on! It is the intent. At a party in Italy a woman asked me (actually she was a friend of a friend), “Rhonda, why do you attract all the best men? I try, and try and try, but get no where. I don’t see you doing anything differently.” My response to her was it’s not necessarily about what you see…it’s about how you feel, the intent. If you want to be with a rich man at all costs and that’s your main goal, then get him or not, you will never be happy.

Jenisa, e-mail my assistant Michelle. There isn’t a woman on the planet beyond hope, LOL!

Thanks so much for posting everyone and making this blog post complete! ;-)

]]> By: Rhonda Cort http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-54 Rhonda Cort Sun, 24 Jan 2010 16:22:40 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-54 Charlie, I know Alicia, she's a friend of mine :-) In fact we had a chat on Friday. Wonderful woman! Emily, you're soooo right. That's the point I was making. LOL! Gene, shame on you! LOL! - Rhonda Charlie, I know Alicia, she’s a friend of mine :-) In fact we had a chat on Friday. Wonderful woman!

Emily, you’re soooo right. That’s the point I was making. LOL!

Gene, shame on you! LOL!

- Rhonda

]]> By: Jenisa http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-57 Jenisa Sun, 24 Jan 2010 15:06:45 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-57 NO, THAT MAKES YOU A SMART BLACK WOMEN!!!!! HEY, HOOK ME UP!!!! NO, THAT MAKES YOU A SMART BLACK WOMEN!!!!! HEY, HOOK ME UP!!!!

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]]> By: LaTalya http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-56 LaTalya Sun, 24 Jan 2010 12:19:23 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-56 Absolutely NOT! I think it's the intent behind your actions that determine whether or not you're a gold digger.. Is it from a state of lack or a reflection of your state of abundance? If it's tied to your values, standards and sense of deservability--you will effortlessly attract wealth.. Absolutely NOT! I think it’s the intent behind your actions that determine whether or not you’re a gold digger.. Is it from a state of lack or a reflection of your state of abundance? If it’s tied to your values, standards and sense of deservability–you will effortlessly attract wealth..

]]> By: Cynthia http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-55 Cynthia Sun, 24 Jan 2010 11:57:03 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-55 It demonstrates that you know what you want and what you deserve! :) It demonstrates that you know what you want and what you deserve! :)

]]> By: Charlie http://magneticmojo.com/women/2010/01/so-i-date-wealthy-entrepreneurs-and-businessmen-does-that-make-me-a-golddigger/comment-page-1/#comment-53 Charlie Sun, 24 Jan 2010 10:56:07 +0000 http://magneticmojo.com/women/?p=852#comment-53 No it makes you a GOAL digger. Read this book: http://goaldigger.com/ Awesome woman that dated talented businessmen and learned from their goals and experiences No it makes you a GOAL digger. Read this book: http://goaldigger.com/ Awesome woman that dated talented businessmen and learned from their goals and experiences

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