Single Business Owner: Two Secrets to Attracting "Mr. Right for You" On-line!
Are you a single female business owner looking to date? Are you tired of sifting through piles of dead-end e-mail? If you want to start attracting more compatible dates–QUICKLY, then READ ON!
Today I checked out a dating statistics poll (topdatingtips) that confirmed something I already knew. Mr. Right for a female entrepreneur or business owner is as rare as red diamonds. Why because you, my dear, are rare and UNIQUE YOURSELF!
Take a look at the question and answers that caught my eye:
What kind of woman do you go for?
1. Modern career girl 35%
2. Professional go-getter 7%
3. Home-loving girl-next-door 34%
4. The quiet librarian 4%
5. The girl at the checkout 6%
6. Someone like mom 1%
7. The free spirited hippy chick 8%
8. Your ex 6%
Hmm, not encouraging (if you think like most women think)… We rank just above “someone like mom”, “the quiet librarian” and “the girl at the checkout”. Geez, even the “free spirited hippy chick” has more guys looking for her. That’s great news for my friend Christina. But what about YOU and me?
These findings don’t make me nervous, not one bit! I love being a rarity–the red diamond–besides uniqueness is magnetic. YOU are unique, rare and very much sought after by men just like you. This is your ASSET!
Most men are looking for the 9-5 girl or the modern career girl (no offense to our girlfriends). That’s fine. You aren’t looking for them either. You need a man who can understand and support you 100% in your business endeavors. You need a man who is not intimidated by your goals, dreams and dedication to your business. Most importantly, someone who believes in and wants to live the same lifestyle you want.
These are things most career guys cannot do (ahem, I did say most). I’ve been there and done that. You need to get smart, stop wasting time and start qualifying men before you commit your time and heart to a relationship destined to fail.
In order to qualify men, you need to attract them in the first place! Sorry to tell you this, but I’m here to help… Your profile is very likely KILLING your chances of attracting Mr. Right for You online.
Here are two secrets you can use today to turn your profile into a MAGNET to attract only a potential “Mr. Right for You”:
• HEADLINE - Clearly state who you are looking for in your headline. Yes, you can get it all in there. Be creative. You are in your work…so transfer it to your play. EXAMPLE: “Tall Brainy Brunette for Outgoing Business-Minded Whiz”
• YOUR LIFESTYLE - Be specific and authentic about the type of lifestyle you live (or desire to live). You don’t have to reveal all your hopes and dreams, but let men who read your profile know whether it’s a fit or not by giving them a snapshot of it. EXAMPLE: “I’ve been running my own business for the last 5 years. Being able to take a break and walk on the beach at noon is one of the coolest perks about working for myself!”
Remember this magnetic formula:
CLARITY + SPECIFICITY + AUTHENTICITY = MORE QUALITY RESPONSES
Most women try to ‘cast a wide net’ to catch more fish. As in business, so as in love, we cannot be all things to all men. No wonder they fail! Don’t be like them. Use my magnetic formula above and you’ll be frying, roasting and baking ‘fish’ for days, LOL!
Now go make the changes to your profile now! Let me know how things go.
Your magnetic attraction mentor!
Rhonda Cort
“The Magnetic Woman”
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Hello! Thank you very much for that enlightening article
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I really like your blog and i respect your work. I’ll be a frequent visitor.
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Unfortunately, that is how the cyberspaces dating world is…it’s at times like searching for a needle in a haystack. See having one of your (female) acquaintances attending at your profile, rendering some advice on what you could do to attract those you are interested in meeting. And perhaps too, you should ease up on your standards a bit (at least when it comes to body type).
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