I sympathize with you and in fact I’m here to make sure you NEVER have to suffer through that again! No man should have to.

Last week, I was at a fun singles mingle in my area. I was talking to a woman about my business when her friend joined our conversation. Honestly he looked like he had been through Chinese water torture for 8 weeks!

We soon found out he had been trapped talking (actually on the receiving end of a woman who had diarrhea of the mouth) for 45 minutes! FORTY-FIVE MINUTES! Can you imagine the pain and horror! I couldn’t believe it!

I asked him why in the world he sat there, listening to a woman he couldn’t stand for almost an hour. His answer was, “I didn’t know how to leave without hurting her feelings. Plus, she was talking so much, I couldn’t get a word in.”

I am glad he thought about her feelings (like a true gentleman), but gee, that was an hour of his life he could never get back! More importantly, who knows how many women he actually WANTED to meet that he never did???

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Your International Mojo Acceleration Coach,

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I have worked with men around the world, from Italy to Sweden to Sri Lanka to the USA and I have heard men list all sorts of problems they have regarding their dating and love lives.

Here are some of the popular challenges men tell me they have:

• “I can’t seem to keep her interested for long.”
• “I don’t know how to act on the first date.”
• “The women get to choose—and I’m not at the top of the list.”

I could go on, but I don’t want either of us to be depressed. These seem like very different and somewhat valid concerns, but at the end of the day, they all struggle with the SAME ISSUE.

Here’s a secret few men know. Attracting the perfect 10, inside and out—the Holy Grail woman is what I named her—has little to do with her and A LOT to do with YOU. She’s got brains, beauty, a great character; she’s the highest quality woman you can find. But the problem is that most men never seem to be able to find her—or attract her, I should say.

Anyone who has mentored with me has heard me say this quote I’ve coined:

“Attraction is an attitude.”

Rhonda, you make it sound so sterile and business-like. Well, I don’t mean to, but it does get the point across. Men are busy trying to change WHO they are and that’s the problem. Don’t try to become someone else, just make adjustments to the way you think.

So what is the first tip?

Tip #1 to Skyrocket Your Magnetism: Be direct, courteous and don’t care what she thinks about you.

If you’re having a discussion and you are at opposite ends on a matter. Agree to disagree, don’t waffle and bend to her side just to impress her. You’ll end up doing the EXACT OPPOSITE!

A man that can stand up to our sultry ways and say “no” or “I don’t agree” is extremely sexy. Why? We love a challenge and we are attracted to a man who can teach us something new. I know, I know, women may have rebelled in the past, but trust me. They’re used to trying to use their power to see if you’ll bend. Don’t. When all is said and done, they’ll respect you for it.

So go out and use this tip today. But before you do, I want to see your comment below. My posts are not complete without you…

Your Magnetic Mojo Mentor,

Rhonda

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• “I can’t seem to keep her interested for long.”
• “I don’t know how to act on the first date.”
• “The women get to choose—and I’m not the top of the list.”

I could go on, but I don’t want either of us to be depressed. These seem like very different and somewhat valid concerns, but at the end of the day, they all struggle with the SAME ISSUE.

Here’s a secret few men know… Attracting the perfect 10, inside and out—the Holy Grail is what I named her—has little to do with her and A LOT to do with YOU. She’s got brains, beauty, a great character; she’s the highest quality woman you can find. But the problem is that most men never seem to be able to find her—or attract her, I should say.

Anyone who has mentored with me has heard me say this quote I’ve coined:

“Attraction is an attitude.”

Rhonda, you make it sound so sterile and business-like. Well, I don’t mean to, but it does get the point across. Men are busy trying to change WHO they are and that’s the problem. Don’t try to become someone else, just make adjustments to the way you think.

Here’s the good news:

“You don’t need dozens and dozens of CDs, DVDs and 12-month courses to do it! It’s much simpler.”

In this series of posts, I’ll be teaching you some pointers from the Magnetic Mojo™ method. It’s simple, sometimes counter-intuitive, but gets the job done and you don’t have to become some other guy!  Sounds like a lifesaver, yes!

I want you to keep this simple truth in mind at all times:

“Don’t expect all women to be attracted to YOU. However, just know that there are certain magnetic QUALITIES and CHARACTERISTICS that attract top-quality women in general.”

The even better news is that YOU probably have a lot of them—they’re just buried! It’s not your fault though. Who could withstand parent’s advice (well-meaning but sometimes deadly), friend’s advice, advice from “gurus and dating coaches”, how society tells us to act, negative experiences…etc (the list is endless). Plus…

They didn’t teach you “Attraction 101” in High School—or at your university, LOL!

Now let’s start bringing that magnetic mojo out!

Here’s one factor you MUST throw away IMMEDIATELY, because it’s killing your love life!

It’s called the “What A Wuss Factor” or WAW. Some guys have more and some less. So what is it?

Simply put: A guy who has high door mat tendencies due to outside conditioning, low self-confidence and/or indecisiveness.

#1 of 4 Common “WAW Factor” Behaviors That She Won’t Tell You, BUT Will Send Her Running:

#1) Asking your date or girlfriend her opinion on EVERYTHING (like restaurants, movies…etc)! Now I don’t feel that it’s always the man’s job to make all the arrangements for eternity. However, especially on the first date (perhaps for the first few dates), you should try to take a more dominant role as far as making choices are concerned. If you’re meeting for the first time, you probably know what her favorite cuisine is. So you can choose something like that. BUT…

It’s way cooler when you choose something that YOU like to do and say you want to share it with her. This is bound to be a big hit and memorable—especially if it’s a new experience for her. Just make sure you aren’t taking her to eat the best seafood in town only to find out she’s allergic to fish (like I am). That type of information is easy to verify beforehand.

Great! Now you’re starting to magnetize that mojo…

Stay tuned for the next post. You won’t want to miss out! Don’t forget to leave me a comment as this blog is not complete with you.

Rhonda

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After observing, working with and dating powerful, successful men during my 10 years living and traveling internationally, I was shocked… Many were NO WHERE near their potential when it came to dating—even though they were running companies that made tens of millions of euros or dollars. Confidence and savoir faire in one area did not translate to other areas. I had two major breakthroughs:

1) I discovered EXACTLY what made certain men MAGNETICALLY attractive to beautiful, intelligent women regardless of their level of attractiveness, status, wealth—or the country they lived in!

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You’re successful, you’re handsome…but you’re so darn busy and don’t want to waste time! I can understand that, but if you’re also at home when you’d rather be out with a beautiful woman, conversing over a delicious Surf ‘n Turf, don’t blame me! Your “quickie” could be to blame.

What quickie, Rhonda? You ask. The one involving that beautiful blond bombshell with the PhD in Psychology. It went something like this…

“Hey, you’re really pretty and smart. Would love to know more.”

Great, it only took you 10 seconds to send now you can finish that report you were working on. One day passes, then two, then seven… What happened to Miss Tall Blond PhD? No answer. You wonder why? If you haven’t figured it out yet, shame on you!

Here are a few things that may be going through her mind…

1. Yawn! Boring, average Joe (forgive me if your name is Joe). Smart women need to be stimulated mentally, otherwise we’re just not interested. Try commenting on something you admire about her profile and ask a question about it. It will take you 2 minutes maximum AND she will most likely write you back.
2. You come across as a guy who will never have any time to dedicate to his woman, so why bother answering. Have you ever gone out (or tried to go out) with women who are ‘Busy Bees”? They are so popular, in demand or swamped with business that you cannot make a date for WEEKS? Yes, highly unattractive.
3. Worse yet, you come across as that guy who sends out dozens of e-mails a day, “shooting in the dark”, hoping someone is desperate enough to respond. Reeks of desperation and sleaze…it the best WOMAN REPELLENT ever!
4. Blah! Blah! Blah! Not a trace of excitement or chase. Women like to be pursued just as much as you like the chase. She will think you must not be THAT interested if you can’t put at least 5 sentences together to entice her to write back.

HOT TIP: If you’re pressed for time—DON’T WRITE! A lazy one-liner is the WORST thing you can do! You will kill your chances with her before you have even started. Even a wink is better if you feel you can’t wait (although I personally hate winks)!

How do I know this? Because someone, who I would definitely have gone out with, did the same thing today. BIG MISTAKE!

Your magnetic mojo & attraction mentor!

Rhonda

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1) You save money. Personally, I don’t care how much I have to spend for quality, if it’s worth it, it’s worth it! However, why waste money unnecessarily?

The quicker you meet the women you feel are good matches in person, the sooner you will find the one you want. If you waste time e-mailing back and forth, you’ll spend more time on the site—and thus more money.

2) You save emotional investment. Have you ever spent weeks e-mailing a girl you just KNEW was the one, only to meet her and there was no connection? You’re not alone, we’ve all done it. When you take things offline sooner–rather than later–you can evaluate whether it is or it isn’t meant to be.

3) You save time. Time is the most precious asset we have. I am all about saving time! There are a TON of “girls” out there looking to suck you dry with an on-line relationship (one they NEVER intend to take offline). So you can easily weed out the girls from the women when you call their bluff.

How to Take Things Offline Quickly

Read my previous post entitled “Magnetic Mail Mojo #2″.  A guy called Ryan writes a simple 2-sentence e-mail. It’s an example of the perfect way to take things offline in just two e-mails.

Once you establish there is mutual attraction (when she positively responds to your first e-mail), you can easily ask to meet her in person without being creepy or pushy. Here’s what you do:

In e-mail #2:

1) Tell her you’re interested in seeing her bright smile or experiencing her warm personality live (or whatever trait it is that you complemented her on in e-mail # 1).

2) Simply ask to meet her for a cup of coffee or a drink during the next week.

Then see how she responds. If she agrees, then she is serious, if she doesn’t she’s not. Simple as that. Don’t accept excuses!

A cup of coffee or a drink in a public location is quick and non-threatening. It gives you the opportunity to deepen the connection if you are into her and she is into you. If either of you are not feeling it, you can easily leave after a few minutes without feeling guilty or awkward. There are few things worse than struggling through an ENTIRE evening with a date you don’t want to be with!

Women like men who are decisive. We will get bored if you e-mail us endlessly. The spark must continue, if it’s even there in the first place–all the more reason to get things offline ASAP!

Sending you a magnetic hugs! (Don’t get too excited)

Miss Mojo

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OK, glad you had a good laugh, but I couldn’t be more serious. When evaluating guys profiles, I wonder if they even possess a big brain. I ask myself if and what they were thinking!

I hope you’re not one of them. If you are and you’re not meeting quality women on-line, then I suggest you avoid my top two profile turn-offs that REPEL women:

1. Gratuitous Nudity. Guys, you may think those photos with your shirt off (or in underwear) are HOT, but they’re NOT. You have to have some sort of emotional connection with a woman before she’ll be truly turned on by them. Do us all a favor and save the hot pics for later.
2. Flexing Economic Muscle. So you’ve got your own home by the beach, dress in Armani suits, eat at all the finest restaurants…blah, blah, blah. I am amazed at how much detail men give about their posh lifestyles (complete with photos of a huge home and exotic cars) and then are annoyed when they attract money-hungry women.It’s OK to say you’re an entrepreneur or business owner, but leave it at that. Dwell on what makes you who you are character-wise and your interests. Your brilliance and accomplishments will shine through when you write with understated elegance.

Both of these are small brain approaches many guys use thinking they will attract more women. Please save yourself time, money…and face by avoiding them!

So my friend, follow these two tips and you will be all the closer to your own personal Holy Grail!

A guy flaunting big brains is sexy!

Miss Mojo

P.S. Don’t be shy! Let me know what you think…

Here’s an e-mail tip for all the “chronic winkers”. I am anti-winks (for the most part), but that’s another blog post!

Let’s dive in…

Orlando, March 23, 2009

You are a beautiful woman!!! Would like to meet you just to experience your positive enthusiasm.

Have a great week…

Ryan

Guys, I know it can be frustrating or tiresome writing e-mail to women through a dating site. However, if you want to skyrocket your success rate and lower the amount of time you spend as a member (all while meeting more compatible women), you need to learn this secret system. Ryan does it so well!

So what’s the system Miss Mojo?

So you see a great girl you want to connect with on-line. Here’s what you do:

1. Pick 2 details that strike you from her profile. One physical and one non-physical.
2. Casually compliment her on one of her striking features (in a non-creepy way)! Then follow that with a non-physical one.

Simple, very effective and saves you time and toil! Works like a charm on women.

Great! Now you can stop the brain strain about what to write. Oh, I’m so proud of myself today. There is one less guy who will lazily resort to the dreaded wink–and one less girl who will hit the delete button.

Who knows, maybe it’ll be a love connection instead?

Miss Mojo

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Honestly, I’m tired of hearing how men only want sex. If you’re looking for a great woman to date for a long-term relationship or marry, then this post is especially for you.

Let’s say you meet a woman who seems to have it all. It’s your first date and things are going well–EXTREMELY well! By the end of dinner the sexual tension is so strong… She invites you back to her place for “a drink”. You end up on the sofa and she starts kissing you…

Screeeech!!! Wait a minute!

This girl has “got it all” and you’re about to blow it! “But Miss Mojo, I’m attracted to her and she’s the best date I’ve had in a long time!” That’s exactly why you should slow down. Keep reading…

The man who said, “No!”

I had a conversation with an Australian friend of mine. He told me about a woman he’d gone out with a few times. On the first date she was brilliant, beautiful and sexy. He really thought this woman had potential and could be “the one”.

After dinner, she made sexual advances and not wanting to ruin the potential relationship, he said, “no!”  She was shocked, but not turned off. They saw each other the next day and she pushed things again—they ended up in bed. After that, the feeling was gone. It had gone from SIZZLE to fizzle.

Cut to the chase Miss Mojo!

My advice to you, put away Mini Me and start thinking with your Big Brain as the Aussie chap says. I feel that we each have several soul mates on the planet. Why blow it because you’re thinking with your second brain? This goes for women too. Yes guys, we have one too

So the next time you meet your “Holy Grail”, show some restraint!

Miss Mojo