Hey Delightful, Delicious Diva!
It’s foxy, fabulous and fierce Friday. Let’s start the weekend off with a BANG & BOOM. I decided to address 4 questions today.
FOUR WOMEN wrote me with FOUR DIFFERENT CHALLENGES:
- Dorothy wants to meet single, high quality, successful, well connected men who aren’t married over 60.
- Melissa wants to have an INFLUENTIAL PRESENCE in business so she can make more MONEY.
- Lorena is too tired, too distracted and unsure of what to focus on to get the most improvement QUICKLY.
- Catherine wonders how to have a relationship that last longer than 4 months as that’s the point men walk away from her.
These seem like 4 VASTLY DIFFERENT challenges that would have solution that are LIGHT YEARS A PART, right?
Well, not so.
There is ONE THING you can use to turn these situations around TODAY.
I can relate to all of this, when I started doing my own work on my personal journey years ago, I was not standing out in the crowd, quality men weren’t coming anywhere near me – in fact I was in a relationship with an emotionally abusive man. I’ve found a way to do that. Before, I thought I was giving off a wonderful energy, but that was not the case. I was acting and not in integrity with my soul.
But thankfully, after all of the work, education, research and international experience I’ve had.
It makes a HUGE difference. That’s why the majority of the dating and attraction programs on the market don’t work. You’re acting and doing (masculine power)…not being and creating (feminine power). This energy cannot be faked. So I had to dig deeper and understand what was going on psychologically and energetically and clear it up so I could communicate and radiate with power, style and sensuality. I’ve done a lot of work which is why I get to do this now for women world-wide and I get to share this with you.
A lot of it stems from these 7 SENSUAL POWER PRINCIPLES, so that’s where we’re going to begin. This would turn into a novel if I started teaching you all 7, so we’ll concentrate on one today.
ATTRACTION & INFLUENCE, unlike much of what is taught today and for the last decades, has nothing to do with how beautiful you are, how much money you have, how fashionably you dress or how smart you are, although they can help initially (open the door easily)…
But they cannot, keep the door open or help you stay in the room long-term. That’s why you see smart, rich and beautiful people all the time who get dumped by people who seem “less than” them. That’s why tactics, books, acting, hard to get strategies, manipulation and all these “quick-fix” techniques don’t work – at least not long-term.
WHAT DOES WORK LONG-TERM?
Sensual Power Principle #3 – The POWER of EMOTION & ENERGY
Emotions are energy moving within you wanting to express, transform into being what you are thinking. They power the thoughts and make them become real.
Have you ever wondered why so many people listen to self-help tapes or repeat affirmations for WEEKS, MONTHS and YEARS and NEVER GET RESULTS?
We say, “A great man is coming into my life now” or “Financial abundance is flowing into my life today” yet, what is powering this thought is DOUBT, FEAR and WORRY.
You can try to “fake it till you make it”, but if the ENERGY is not in integrity with what you are saying, it won’t happen.
BUT WHEN IT IS IN INTEGRITY…KA-BOOM!!
When you can come from a place of knowledge and connection with yourself, this is when you start to radiate a powerful MAGNETIC ENERGY. You feel ATTRACTIVE, BEAUTIFUL, DESIRABLE, CONFIDENT – from the inside-out.
NO ONE and NOTHING can take this from you! Not divorce, or a breakup, or gaining weight, or getting older. That is if you do not let it.
As I said before, IT CANNOT BE FAKED.
You will have the ability to not only DRAW IN people everywhere you go, but they will be INTRIGUED by you…want to know you and what you can do for them – personally and professionally.
You will have the ability to INFLUENCE others ethically so you can help them achieve what they want too. Using this power in a selfish way eats away at your soul and sooner or later the wrongfully enchanted party wakes up. That sort of mirage can only be held up so long.
Now it’s time for you to take action.
HERE IS YOUR NEXT ACTION STEP (DO IT NOW)
There are many areas this could show up in your life. However, we will concentrate on FIVE MAIN AREAS to give your emotions and energy a check up today.
Ask yourself the following questions and be honest (otherwise you’re only hurting yourself by hindering your growth and repelling your success).
- Are you allowing yourself to feel? Are you experiencing your emotions versus using avoidance behavior like food, alcohol, TV and other things to not feel them?
- Are you feeling them and not getting stuck in them? Are you able to feel them as they present themselves and move on?
- Do you have clear physical and energetic boundaries with other people or are you letting others drain you?
- What is your energy “telling” others about you? Are you aware of HOW your energy is influencing people around you? What results are you getting (OR NOT) in LOVE, LIFE, CAREER & MONEY? Your personal presence and energy directly affect this.
- Do you connected to, understand and live in your own sensual, feminine energy? Are you able to move between masculine and feminine? A few ways this shows:(a) You feel frazzled, low on energy, not sexy and in a rut.
(b) You’re always working, trying to make money or focusing on expenses.
(c) You are stuck in a job/career/business that doesn’t excite you and want to get out, but feel paralyzed.
(d) You put your love life on the back burner or never have time for it.
(e) You are not happy with your current relationship (i.e. the sex isn’t great anymore, your feelings have changed, your partner is pulling away or left).
(f) You can’t remember the last time you took care of yourself or did something you loved (not just 20 minutes, but REAL time – every da
y or two).
As I said, there are so many ways this manifests, but this is enough for now.
If you want to DISCOVER & MASTER your FEMININE POWER & SENSUALITY today.
If you want MORE RAPID RESULTS in regarding personal happiness, magnetism, influence, love, business or money CLICK HERE NOW.
Love & prosperity!
Rhonda
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